Being a parent is not always true, Not infrequently parents make the mistake to the child, thus making the disturbed relationship to the child, many parents still feel right in itself, but not necessarily true according to the child, and often we do not realize the importance Apologize to our child, the following tips on telling how to apologize to our children without reducing the appropriate authority as a parent * personal experience:
Pleaded guilty
Realize that you have made a mistake, and admit it to her. This is one important factor in asking for forgiveness. Not infrequently it is difficult, because parents feel proud. Forget the prestige, if it did not want the problem continues to go on.
Realize that you have made a mistake, and admit it to her. This is one important factor in asking for forgiveness. Not infrequently it is difficult, because parents feel proud. Forget the prestige, if it did not want the problem continues to go on.
Calm
Apologized in an emotional state to be gratuitous. If you have not been able to be calm, tell him that you need time for yourself, before continuing his conversation. Then, think about what happened and what causes it to be a calm mind.
Do not blameApologized in an emotional state to be gratuitous. If you have not been able to be calm, tell him that you need time for yourself, before continuing his conversation. Then, think about what happened and what causes it to be a calm mind.
Do not blame the children behind just to justify your stance. For example, by saying that if he is not lazy, you will not stay mad at him. This is tantamount to not apologize, but rather blame.
Apologizing
Saying that you are guilty and asked if she would forgive him will make it easier to express regret, and make the children learn to understand how to improve relations.
Evaluation
Together with children, look again at how you can solve that problem very well, and agree a way that will be made if the same problem occurred again later.
Forget
However, you only a man, who certainly are not perfect and can do no wrong. However, do not continue to dwell on guilt. After apologizing to the kids, forget about the problem and try not to repeat it again, just like when asked not to repeat mistakes.
Do not overdo it
Redundant and always apologize, even for things that are very trivial, it will make you lose your dignity. Ask for forgiveness because you are guilty, not because they want to try to impose discipline or penalty fee that is reasonable, for his mistakes.
But often also reactions and how to deal with a different problem on each child. Some are easy to forgive, but some are not, so the impact in the long term, for example:
1. Children lose confidence in the elderly or others
2. Children are less self-confidence mamiliki
3. Children can not control themselves or emotion.
4. Children feel sad, left out, offended and others.
5. Children feel neglected and unappreciated feelings.
Saying that you are guilty and asked if she would forgive him will make it easier to express regret, and make the children learn to understand how to improve relations.
Evaluation
Together with children, look again at how you can solve that problem very well, and agree a way that will be made if the same problem occurred again later.
Forget
However, you only a man, who certainly are not perfect and can do no wrong. However, do not continue to dwell on guilt. After apologizing to the kids, forget about the problem and try not to repeat it again, just like when asked not to repeat mistakes.
Do not overdo it
Redundant and always apologize, even for things that are very trivial, it will make you lose your dignity. Ask for forgiveness because you are guilty, not because they want to try to impose discipline or penalty fee that is reasonable, for his mistakes.
But often also reactions and how to deal with a different problem on each child. Some are easy to forgive, but some are not, so the impact in the long term, for example:
1. Children lose confidence in the elderly or others
2. Children are less self-confidence mamiliki
3. Children can not control themselves or emotion.
4. Children feel sad, left out, offended and others.
5. Children feel neglected and unappreciated feelings.
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